Starting therapy has opened a small can of worms for me – but who wants an unopened can of worms left in their head?

Why I’ve been keeping silent about my life recently

Finding someone who is genuinely outside your network is getting harder all the time

mysogynist, racist, snobbish – being gay doesn’t make you an angel

“I can get all the pressure I need to dislike my body just by flicking through QX or the Daily Mail. I don’t need extra help from someone I love.”

sunsets and solitude aren’t just for lovers

Are men really as desperately horny as we like to think?

if my depressed lover has stopped calling, can I date other people?

When it comes to clothing, is less more? Or is it less?

Writing this column has taught me we all have more in common than I realised. Shameless plug also included